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  Chapter 65 from
Courage
Formulas, stories and insights

By Rabbi Zelig Pliskin 


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Courage Versus Chutzpah

Chutzpah and courage have certain elements in common. But they are on the opposite end of the scale. Courage is a great virtue, while chutzpah is generally a negative trait.

An extreme definition of chutzpah has been given as someone who murders his parents and then claims that the court should be lenient with him because he is an orphan. A more common form is when a child speaks rudely to a parent, or when a student speaks to a teacher without respect. Chutzpah usually denotes that someone is doing or saying something that is not appropriate to do or say.

The sage Yehudah, the son of Teima, made two statements which are cited in the fifth chapter of Ethics of the Fathers. One is that we should, “Be as bold (az) as a leopard, light as an eagle, swift as a deer, and strong as a lion, to do the will of our Heavenly Father (ibid. 5:23).” Here we see that being bold is a virtue. In his next statement he uses the strongest language to condemn someone who is an az ponim, that is, someone who is brazen. What makes the difference between the quality that is very positive and the one that is very negative?

Here we will mention two distinctions. The praiseworthy quality is when someone is bold in order to fulfill the will of the Creator. This is the boldness of the courageous souls who withstood the Inquisition and adhered to the Torah even though they were risking their lives. This was the boldness of those who did what they could in the ghettos and concentration camps during the Holocaust to observe any possible mitzvah. This is the boldness of those who studied Torah when it was legally banned in the former Soviet Union. This is the boldness of those who observed Shabbos in the United States during the Great Depression in 1929 and the early ‘30’s. This is the boldness that many people express in less dramatic situations when they observe Torah even though they are met with opposition.

Another distinction is that which is stated by Rabbi Chaim of Volozhin in Ruach Chaim. True courage is that which is inside your heart. You speak and act with courage, but you do not make an issue of it to anyone else. The Hebrew words for the negative form of brazenness is az ponim; this would be translated as, “Insolence on one’s face.” Here the chutzpah is recognizable on one’s face. That is not the positive attribute of having inner courage.

If a person does have the negative trait of chutzpah, instead of trying to become meek and quiet, he should find positive ways to speak and act with courage. As the Vilna Gaon (Commentary to Proverbs 22:6) points out, we might not be able to change our temperament, but we can channel it in the proper direction. The more chutzpah one previously had, the more good he can now do. He will be able to do things that others would be afraid to do.

When I was a young child, I was fearless around other people. I had the ability to say whatever came to my mind. At first I was too young to understand that I needed to be diplomatic about what I would say and how I said it. My parents kept telling me to refrain from saying things that they told me were chutzpadik to say. But I would argue, “Why is this chutzpah? This is the truth.” I didn’t realize that even with the truth, there are acceptable ways to speak and there are unacceptable ways. Teachers kept telling me that I have chutzpah and I would disagree with them. I didn’t understand why they didn’t understand that I was saying the truth. Finally I had a teacher who understood me. This teacher realized that I didn’t mean to do anything wrong.

“You have a tremendous talent,” my teacher told me. “You have a responsibility to use it for the good. You need to be more aware how the way you say things affect the people to whom you say them. You will be able to do many acts of kindness with your ability to say whatever you feel is right to say. You will be able to ask people to donate money to charity and worthwhile organizations. You will be able to suggest to people that they need to correct their actions and their traits. But what you have is like explosives. They can be used for building and they can be used for destroying. The more powerful the explosives, the more careful one needs to be with them.”

This teacher gave me a number of private lessons to help me differentiate between positive and negative ways to say things. This was the most important lesson in the world for me. I am very grateful that this teacher didn’t just tell me that I had chutzpah. Rather this teacher showed me how to utilize it properly.

 
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